Elise from Johannesburg South Africa

I am 44, heavy set, and dedicated to my growing business and career to a fault. However, all of my life I've always had to have my own back and never got to experience being cared for in a meaningful way. Focusing on self-care and health are my biggest priority so I can be a better person, friend, and partner to whomever I connect with.

I want someone who is ready and able to look after me in the most genuine way. Someone who wants to be supportive in a multitude of ways. Someone who finds satisfaction in ensuring that I'll be thriving while we share our journey together.

I love long talks, deep discussions, and quiet time whole we co-exist. I value quality time. I value experiences. I want to understand how people think and what inspires them.

I don't like the PP term, but essentially I want someone who wants a meaningful, long-tern connection and wants to be a provider so I can focus on being my best version of myself.

I am autistic, so I struggle with connecting with people....but once I do it's my mission to nourish my bonds.

I'm not good at talking about myself, but I'd love to hear more about you.